As a kid, I was woken up every morning by my mom telling me the weather in the happiest young. I always responded with a groan and “ten more minutes…five more minutes…just one more minute.” You could say that I am definitely NOT a morning person. I’ve tried to be a morning person and hit up that 7 AM spin class so I could get my workout in and start some work before the day even really began. But, it never worked. I ended up despising the gym, feeling exhausted by my lack of sleep because I only got about 4-5 hours because of the early wake up, and I didn’t really get anything done.
One formula doesn’t work for everyone.
Mornings don’t work for me– they are not how I become more productive or happier as a person. So, this semester, I’m trying something new: I’m doing weekends differently. In the past, my weekends included me waking up around 10, struggling to do work all day but feeling really distracted, and meeting up to go out with friends at night. I would end up drowning in work on Sundays because Friday and Saturday had been pretty unproductive. So, this semester, I’m changing my schedule to work with my own personal productivity.
I like working at night. 6 p.m. is when I start to feel energized and focused so now, that’s when I’m starting my work on weekends. During the day, I’m enjoying myself. I felt like in the old schedule, I never really spent quality time with people during the weekend. Maybe, we went out to a party together or to a big dinner, but I never got to have the long conversations and connections I really wanted to have. So now, I’m having coffee and lunch and sometimes, even breakfast with friends on the weekends. Another thing I found was I had bogged my weekends down so much in work and honestly, not being productive, that I was never getting to spend time in D.C. and enjoying this city. With my new schedule, I actually have time to go to the museums I love and take advantage of all the opportunities that exist here.
So, this quick post is just to tell you: do what works for you. Don’t have a schedule that leaves you feeling disconnected and unproductive just because that’s the conventional way of doing things. Change the pattern and you might find life looking a lot easier and happier.
From the time I was a child, the holidays have been the absolute most magical time of year to me. One of the most magical parts of Christmas to me is the movies– there’s just no way not to feel Christmas joy when you watch ABC Family (now Freeform)’s 25 days of Christmas movie marathons. In college now, I don’t get to watch the 25 days of Christmas but during finals season when I get overwhelmed, I often take a break to watch a Christmas movie and afterwards, I always feel a bit more clarity and peace of mind. Watching Christmas movies is my favorite holiday self-care activity.
In honor of us being exactly 20 days away from Christmas, I’m giving my ranking of my top five Christmas movies.
Love, Actually. Recently, this movie has become the subject of much debate and unfortunately, hate, but I absolutely love it. It has a million and one plot holes, the characters are ridiculous most of the time, but I can’t help but fall in love with this movie when Sam runs across the airport to declare his love to Joanna or the Prime Minister knocks on every door on a street in London to find the woman he loves. It’s these truly outrageously cheesy moments that have me watching this movie at least five times every Christmas season, without fail.
Christmas Shoes. This movie, I believe, is the most underappreciated Christmas movie ever. It’s a made-for-TV movie that aired on CBS and starred Rob Lowe. It’s also based upon one of my favorite Christmas songs. This movie makes me cry my eyes out, but reminds me of the true meaning of Christmas: love and giving. It is a movie that should not be missed.
3. The Polar Express. I remember going to see this movie in 3D in theaters when it came out and feeling so absolutely immersed– my dad can tell you, I kept reaching my hand out to try to grab the ticket. I walked out feeling like I had just been at the North Pole and seen Santa himself. I even put one of the reindeer’s bells on my Christmas list the next year, desperately wanting to live the Polar Express. Even today when I’m older, I feel that same type of magic for the Polar Express– it’s like I’m there at the North Pole each time I watch it.
2. The Santa Clause. In my house, this movie is the ULTIMATE classic. It’s one of few movies that can get us to all gather up together in the living room to watch, without anyone complaining that they wanted to watch a different movie. Tim Allen will forever be my favorite Santa Clause– he’s hysterical in his original denial of the Christmas spirit and eventual complete embrace.
DRUM ROLL, PLEASE! 1. The Year Without a Santa Clause. They call me Heat Miser, whatever I touch starts to melt in my clutch. Heat Miser and Snow Miser are two of my favorite Christmas characters ever and the Miser song is so great– I lowkey quote it all year. It also features another classic Christmas song, Blue Christmas. This movie just leaves me feeling so happy at the end and I just feel like it has the warm-fuzzy feeling you expect of Christmas.